My understanding is, the major player for headsets is Meta, currently Quest3. The major player from streaming and games is Steam. Deovr is one of the best video players but there are competitors. Deove seem to want to bypass Steam, that might well make sense but others like MS have tried and failed. In the meantime, you customers, the majority of whom use Quest, are being neglected with continual updates that provide no benefit but introduce one bug after another. It’s not for me to tell you how to run your business but in an age when we are bombarded with customer feedback requests there might be something to gain by listening to them.
I have sympathy with you though, in that the masters of updates that provide nothing but hassle is of course Meta!